Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Vacation!

Well my Jeju trip was good fun, full of touristy stuff, which at times was good, and at times was quite tedious, but I had a good time. I got some great pictures, which are posted on Facebook. Now, though, is my long winter vacation (long, read, 3 days off plus the 2 day weekend) and I'm mostly just chilling in Daejeon. I went out to meet some friends last night, and I had a really excellent time. Loud, boisterous people--the kind of people that you can tease without feeling like you're hurting anyone, and well, that's what I need. I'm starting to feel like I could make myself a niche here in the social realm, and that has been a long time coming, so it's quite nice.

That said my lazy vacation is going to be great, because I can start finally posting photographs on my website, send home some cards, and do all the stuff that I have been too exhausted to do. Tonight, though, I'm going into Seoul for the huge New Years party, and the "Ringing of the Bells", which is a Seoul tradition. The big decorated bell, like the kinds you find in Buddhist temples (like this one:)

(In Jeju, at the temple adjoining Sunrise Peak)
Is rung 33 times to chime in the New Year. I'm meeting my friend Maddie, who was on the Ghana semester with me, and lives in Euijeongbu. We're gonna get African food and then have a blast! I'm super exciiiited!

Happy New Year to you all!!

Monday, December 28, 2009

The obligatory Jeju post will come later.

But to tide you over, here is a little giggle about my school's illustrious English teaching program.

Yesterday I taught a story to one of the older classes, about a cat that didn't chase mice. The mom got scared because there was a mouse. So the dad bought a cat.

And the son said: "Wow, what a nice cat. We'll name her SNATCH because she will snatch up all the mice!"

How nice. A pussy cat named Snatch.

Wednesday, December 23, 2009

So I'm off to Jeju tomorrow!

Tonight is going to be an adventure! I discovered all these great ways to get to Seoul, but there was no way that I could have exchanged my KTX ticket, so I am riding the train anyhow. I guess that's okay, really, since the train has these lovely things called bathrooms.

I plan to get into Seoul around 12:30 and find a jimjilbang somewhere around the Seoul Station. I might be able to find a bus to Gimpo... I hope so, because people say that it's more likely to find a good jimjilbang around the airport. I dont' really know. All I need is for it to have a big locker, a nice bath, and a big hot sauna. I'm really looking forward to those few hours that I spend there, because I haven't been to the jimjilbang in a couple weeks. (Gasp!)

Anyway, Jeju is going to be a lot of fun. Jeju is the Hawaii of Korea. It is the big vacation and honeymoon place for Koreans, and last generation, it was the ONLY place, since most people weren't issued passports. It is a world heritage site, because of the awesome lava tubes that were made by erupting Mt. Halla. I won't be climbing Hallasan, because I don't feel like getting cleats and ice pikes, but I will be visiting the lava tubes, and I'm super excited to take pictures for you all!

In my school's education program, we teach the story of Ebenezer Scrooge to the 5-6th graders. This is really very ironic because we are teaching the students until 9pm on Christmas Eve. And I intend to show that story to my 8pm class, and just all around party like it's 1999. But unfortunately I don't really have anything to party with... hm. My 8pm class yesterday watched the classic Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer movie off of YouTube, haha.

I'm also supposed to be testing for my Taekwondo advancement today. Ack! It's been three weeks! So not prepared. But I go to class every day, and they have deemed me ready, but I don't think I can do everything alone. I hope that I don't need to. But maybe next time you see me, I'll be a yellow belt!

I also watched this documentary on YouTube last night about North Korea. I feel like it's a little overblown. But it's really intriguing, especially when they start talking about KimJungIl's cult of personality. I think it's possible to draw parallels between that cult of personality, and the radical explosion of pentecostal Christianity in South Korea. But I really just wanted to know--how do people get this information? If it is the most secretive country in the world, how do you get this information? How do you get the statistics that say these children are "22cm shorter than the average in South Korea"? Like really? With a country that supposedly has no medical equipment, no this, no that, how did you find out that the average child is 22cm shorter? How do you even know anything about the average anything?

Not that one little thing like that would change the credibility of the program. But you do wonder how sensationalist they are being. They also said something like "North Korea is the Hermit Kingdom" but a hundred or so years ago, I believe ALL of Korea was called the Hermit Kingdom. But I'm not sure. Look that one up on Wikipedia.

It fascinates me because you can see just how drastically different the two Koreas are--but you can also see where the same cultural traits have been used. The oneness and the togetherness of Koreans have made South Korea an economic powerhouse, with the freedom to be different, but the desire to be the same, and one unified love for achieving the same life goals--education, success, marriage, a trip to Jeju, haha. But you can see, from the images in the video, that in North Korea that same trait has pushed them in a very different direction.

Anyway, I should probably get out of bed and start packing for my trip! How exciting!!

Sunday, December 20, 2009

Waiting for the Happiness

That's the title of a paper craft company here, which published the planner that I'm using now. It's very Maggie, with adorable little houses everywhere, and a crowded cityscape. It's also got a misplaced "the", but I don't mind that much. The more I think about whether or not the "the" is misplaced, the more I think maybe it isn't... maybe there is a certain kind of happiness that they are waiting for. I certainly feel that way about Korea. In Korea, I'm waiting for the happiness to set in.

I had a pretty good weekend. Mostly just dancing and hanging out at the local dancing-and-hanging-out establishments, and celebrating a friend's birthday with some very intriguing characters. I love meeting characters along the road. It's probably my favorite part of traveling--meeting characters. One guy that I met on Saturday was actually the driver of a submarine. Like really? That's cool. Apparently on every submarine there is at least one murder. Sounds like an excellent mystery novel! (Which is what I've been thinking about constantly because my life has been consumed by watching Castle lately--true love, that show.)

On Sunday I took a day trip up to Seoul to see friends from the states. Got to hang out with Max and Stephanie. It was really fun to see Max in Korea--I mean, we all knew he was Korean in the states, but now it's funny, because I understand Korea in a lot of different ways, and I hear Korean all the time--and then there's Max! Speaking Korean in Korea! We wandered around Seoul, saw a temple, and looked around some exhibits that were city in the main city square. One was on the ROK polar expedition, and another was on Seoul design for 2010, or something... both were kind of odd, but maybe I think they would have been more educational if I understood Korean, haha. Then we went to Dunkin Donuts and consumed way too many donuts, and ended up in Lotte Mart on the weekend before Christmas (aaahhh bad idea) in which Max kept trying to stab me with toy swords. (?) Anyway it was really nice to see somebody from home, and especially somebody with all that history of witty banter. I miss the boys from home a lot.

Then I got coffee and dinner with Stephanie. I got a bus home to Daejeon, but I got one to Yuseong, which is a lot closer to my house. In fact, we drove right by my house as we came into Daejeon! I think that's the way I'm getting to Seoul from now on, man... it's cheaper and simpler. The KTX is really fast and wonderful and comfy (and there are bathrooms) but, I have to go all the way across the city to get it.

Anyway I'm stressing out a little bit about how to get to Seoul on Thursday, before my Jeju excursion. I bought a KTX ticket already, just to make sure I had a seat, but I could easily just take the bus, so maybe I should just cancel the KTX ticket...? I don't know how to do that, but it would probably be a better option. It might put me in the city before the subways shut down, so I can find a decent jimjilbang by the airport (the domestic airport, not Incheon), instead of trying to find someplace to stay until 5am when the trains open. Anyway who knows. I'll have to ask somebody today about how to do it.

That's what's been on my mind lately. I'm just chillin here in Korea, and hunkering down for the winter. Waiting for the cold months to crawl by and the warm weather to come back. The more difficult a winter is, the better the spring feels. :D

Wednesday, December 16, 2009

Photos Taken Around Daejeon

Exploring my City with A Camera!




Here we are behind the main road, in the small farmy place where I like to ride my bike at night.  (Or I did, before it got really cold.)
Small road bordering a field, and the houses behind it. It's odd, but I ride though this area and all of a sudden I could be in a very Asian looking Ghana. There are water tanks on top of the houses, and they are flat, with little railings around the roofs.


Its things like these gates and concrete blocks that make me think that. Plus this is a wonderful break from the monotonous city development, which really is all the same.


You can see those lovely apartment buildings waiting in the background--almost as stark as the mountains behind them. They have intreguing names, but the kids who live there only say which block they live in--I live in 900 or 1000. These things are built with great gusto, and the same apartment building style can go on for ten city blocks, changing only by the numbers listed on their windowless sides. When I first got here I thought I might be lucky enough to live in one. Yeah, definitely not. These are the ritzy ones.


And now, here were are in Kung-dong, the college neighborhood close to me. It serves Chungnam and Kaist, so there are a fair amount of international places here. On this particular Sunday, I had a rather terrible kimbab roll and a place where the staff was just so nice that I couldn't complain. But that tuna had definitely been sitting out for hours.


Another intriguing Korean thing is that guns are perfectly normal toys here. And they look like real guns. The more realistic it looks, the better it is, and these kinds bring this stuff to school. One child (who actually got kicked out of the hagwon) was firing his toy bb gun out of the window. My hagwon is on the 6th floor. But besides firing the gun out of the window, having it and playing with it whenever you want is totally acceptable. I saw one kid riding around with a toy AK strapped to his back, on his bike--he was four or five.

Anyway, those are some pictures from my Daejeon bike riding adventures. I'll leave you one more... a pic of my trusty dusty Korean bike!

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

It's the little things.

So I discovered last night that if I flush my toilet, I get my hot water back. A couple weeks ago the hot water stopped working in my shower--its hot for about two or three minutes, and then cuts out. But last night I discovered that it will come back for a minute or so if I flush the toilet while it is running. Hmmmm. Interesting.

Things around here have been pretty routine and run of the mill. I roll out of bed around 10:30. I take a cold shower. Then I sit on the comp until about 11:00... get dressed, then get out of the house for Taekwondo at 12. The class is one hour, then I find some lunch, and go to work a little after 1:30. Then I work until 9. Then I go home and either watch tv, or crash out immediately. Sometimes I grab dinner with friends, but other times I can be really antisocial and just sit in here by myself.

Hense, these days, nothing interesting has really happened. I'm counting down the days until vacation, and my exciting Jeju trip! Wooo!

Friday, December 11, 2009

Exchanges between Teacher and Student

Me: "Justin, why is your foot on his head?!"
Henry: "... Happy ending because, teacher!"
Me: "..... Tom please answer the next question."

I have NO idea what that was supposed to or not supposed to mean, but I am cracking UP.

Tuesday, December 8, 2009

"Teacher! This book Made in China!"

Proclaimed one of my students yesterday. He was explaining to me that the monster in the story was furry, but the monster in the picture was not. Then he said: "Made in China!" Apparently it is synonymous with "Error, teacher!"

So I've been taking Taekwondo. And Ohhhh man does it hurt. I pulled a neck muscle at some point and now I can't look to one side. My stomach also hurts because of sit ups, and my shoulders hurt because of push ups. I go every day of the week, too, which is a lot more than I went to Kung Fu--ever! In addition, it's a private class, basically, so I'm never out of focus. Ohhh man. But I am learning a lot of Korean, and I know I am going to have a lot of fun. But right now my whole freakin body hurts. Owwww. :D

Wednesday, December 2, 2009

My mountain climbing adventure!

So on Friday night I left straight from work to hitch the train to Seoul. The last bullet train leaves around midnight. It always surprises me that things run so late here. I think it's a side-effect of a country that never stops working--except when they're drinking, and sometimes they're doing both. Anyway, I hit an earlier train, and even got to Seoul before the subways closed down. Using my trusty dusty, but very small, cell phone subway map (all written in Hangeul, I am proud to say), I navigated my way to Itaewon, the place where we were supposed to meet the next morning at 6:00am. There was no way that I was going to make it into the city at that time, so I decided to come the night before and spend the night in a jimjilbang.

Itaewon is an intriguing place--especially on a Friday night. All of a sudden, I am in a diverse city again, with people that speak English--military, Koreans, Africans, Middle Eastern people, Muslims, Americans. You even see some foreign kids in Itaewon. It's the place in Seoul for foreigners, sometimes seedily so. But I like it.

The Sauna I stayed in was nice, but I was surprised and a little disappointed by the price vrs. the facilities. That said, a sauna is a sauna and it's relaxing no matter how many different types of saunas there are. I just laid there and sweat out the week, and then went into the bath and scrubbed myself so clean you would have thought that I was a newborn baby. I ate some ramen noodles sitting on a bench in the dressing room (there seemed no other place to do so) and then I crashed out on a mat in the sauna area for a couple hours. There was a man in the room who was having night terrors, and he kept rolling around and hitting himself and making strange noises. It was a little odd, but I gave it a giggle.

Bright and early at 5:30am, I was out and about in Itaewon again. At 5:30, it kind of looks like a dump--there's advertisements all over the ground, and the tape has come up, and they look more like trash. People that could be servicemen, or just buff dudes, are wandering home--plastered--proclaiming how fantastic the night was. It's still dark, and the only establishments open are the bars (still--and they will probably remain open until 9am). Even the coffee shops haven't opened yet, and what is usually a street of market stalls and neon strangeness, now just looks like a deserted, boarded up trashy part of town--which Itaewon was, about twenty years ago.

Anyway I met up with my fellow travelers, a group of teachers and one student, and we got onto the bus. I passed out for the majority of the bus ride, and when I awoke it was time to eat lunch--at about 10am. We were at a tiny restaurant, nestled into a mountain for all that I could tell. It was quite traditional, and there was nothing else around, just road, mountain, and bare trees. The place was heated with a wood stove, and I deliberately sat right next to it, because I'll tell you--it was cold in there. We ate bibimbap, a delicious rice and vegetable and egg dish that I lovelovelove, and then sleepily climbed in our bus the rest of the way to the mountain base camp.

Climbing a mountain in Korea is a communal event. It is not all rustic and epic like one might imagine. The trail is wide and paved, and occasionally cars go on it. (Stephanie and I encountered taxis, even, in Gongju, likely delivering the elderly grandmother to the top of the mountain, because the Chuseok picnic simply couldn't happen with out her--but she certainly couldn't climb the difficult trails.) The point isn't necessarily to be a part of wilderness. The point is to get to the top with others. Of course the view is spectacular as well.

Though, don't imagine that because the way is a road that it is not hard to climb. The angles are quite deceiving on these trails, and what looks like a simple hike, actually turns out to be a 50 degree up hill climb for miles. But, even just a little way up the trail, the work pays off. This is the view from the first lookout point.




The hills simply went on forever, fading into the distance in the wintery haze. We continued up, and the higher we got, the warmer it got. Soon I was climbing with my coat in my arms, and then my sweatshirt in my arms, and greatly wishing that I had brought my backpack. Camera shoved into my back pocket, we practically raced each other up to the midpoint house. From there we could see the top--the final ridge, with tiny little silhouettes moving across it, and the cell phone station that accompanied the majestic skyline on the neighboring peak. (Only in Korea would our cell phones work perfectly at the top of one of the tallest, most rural mountains.)



The trail soon started to look something like this--stones shaping something like steps, but not in any uniform kind of way. That was more in my element, rock climbing style, I trudged up those 'stairs' with sincere resolve. At the top, the trail widened into the first peak, which had a tower of stones at the top--a tribute to the people who had been there, I believe, but now it looked a little too formulaic. We took a picture on top of this slightly random rock, and you can see the second peak in the background, with another one of the stone towers.


We finally managed to reach the top, and from the top, the view was even more spectacular. We were on one of the tallest mountains in Korea, and definitely the tallest mountain in Jeollanam-do, one of the south-western provinces of Korea. The name of the mountain was Jirisan, and together our group shared the peak with a pack of rather drunk ajumma's and ajoshi hikers. (The soju had been consumed at the first peak, on a blanket laid out on the ground, everyone drinking in the traditional Korean fashion--never pouring their own drink, but continuously filling the drink of others.)


Sometimes the pictures simply speak better than I can. There was a lot of mystery in these hills, but the communal nature of the mountain peak made me overlook it. We were all together, and the Koreans on the peak were all together, and the mystery in these mountains seemed slightly buried under the fun that was being had in the act of hiking. I didn't think much of it then, but as I was riding back in the bus, I remember the mystery hitting me with a bit more force.

Anyway, that's the mountain for now. I need to hurry up and get out of my house, because I need to transfer money for my next excursion--Jeju! Since this trip was a success, I decided to pay for a Jeju trip over Christmas, to keep myself social during that possibly difficult holiday. Jeju is like the Korean Hawaii, the ultimate honeymoon and vacation spot. In the winter, it's quite cold, but I think it will be an excellent experience--and one that not many tourists have had. Jeju in the winter!

Sunday, November 29, 2009

Thanksgiving weekend!

Well, in the States, Thanksgiving weekend is huge! We get a couple days off, and several years out I have spent my time flying hurriedly through some assignment or another, be it Nanowrimo, my thesis outline, or you know, whatever.

This time, of course, I didn't have time off, but I did have an excellent weekend, complete with some serious mountain trekking. (I don't want to say climbing, because I wasn't climbing, but walking, or hiking, even, seems a little less potent. It was definitely a TREK.)


First, I had an exciting Thanksgiving dinner, Korean style, in Songchong-dong, where my coworker's sister lives. There's a traditional restaurant there that serves duck, which is the closest thing to turkey (except chicken) that we could find. So we ate a really delicious, traditional Korean meal, complete with traditional Korean excessive drinking. (Which was not such a good idea on a Thursday night.) I think perhaps the goal of the traditional Korean meal is to cover every inch of the table in some kind of dish or bottle, and if the entire table isn't full, then it simply hasn't been done correctly.

The two girls on the left are my coworker and her sister. Then the guy in the back is Jannie, probably one of my favorite people ever. I don't know everyone at the table, but there is Simon on the right, who went home this week.


Anyway, we had an excellent time chowing down. Here's Becca and I... Native Speaking Queens of Little Fox, stuffing our faces after we just found out that we only have 4 (nonconsecutive) days off for the holiday season--as opposed to our contacted 5 (consecutive) days. But, as I hear, welcome to the world of Hagwon teaching. I giggle now to think that I specifically requested a hagwon job--but that's international life. You never know until you get there. There are some things you just can't plan for. "The Tao is content with the most base places, like water it moves to the lowest places and rests." (I can never quote that right, but the meaning stays the same.) Technically Korea is Confucian, but these two things influence each other very closely. Korea is the country of zero complaints. You can't complain to anyone to their faces. So the goal is to get things to change by talking around. Shame is a very powerful weapon, but if you yourself cause shame on another, the shame really lands on you. Thus everyone tries to fit into their own molds perfectly, and let society collectively place shame on the people that can't.

Or so I imagine. It's easy to imagine that society moves as one consecutive unit when you are quite outside of it. Anyway, more on my Jirisan trip later... for now I just wanted to post about Thanksgiving, and give you some pictures. There are Jirisan pictures posted on Facebook, but I'll put them up again here in a few days.

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Wordcount no longer soaring, but I've decided to get myself out of this rut!

So here in Korea there are a lot of foreigners with very little time. So some people have made up special tour companies that run really jam packed tours on weekends. So instead of moping around that it's thanksgiving and I don't have anywhere to go, I decided to book a trip to a hot spring and mountain in Jeolla-do. At only 90,000 for the whole weekend, I figure I can't go too wrong. (Though after you factor in the ticket to Seoul, and the overnight stay so that I can be ready at 6am, plus all the things I will likely want to buy, it will be more, but ah well. No problemos.) I'm excited to be doing something touristy, to get my mind out of this work-sleep-tv-work-sleep-write mode. It's getting colder, and the leaves have mostly fallen off the trees. But it's still in the 50s. Today it's raining, but I think tomorrow it is going to be quite sunny, and almost 60. That feels nice, at least.

They also have some Christmas trips that I'm thinking about doing, mostly because I REALLY don't want to be alone on Christmas. I would feel slightly horrid for not going to church, but I'm sure it would be okay. I mean nobody likes Christmas-and-Easter-only people anyway. There are a couple of skiing trips, which seem fun but not exciting.. and then there's a trip to Jeju, which is the vacation island of Korea. You have to fly there, and it's quite expensive... so I'm iffy on it, but I'm not sure if I'll get to Jeju at another time. I'm not sure. I want to make the most out of my vacation time, and keep myself busy so that I can meet people and see Korea... but Jeju is kind of a summer phenomenon. (Which is a double edged sword... get the cool stuff and be swarmed with (Korean) tourists, or go in the winter and see it differently, but freeze your butt off.) Anyway it's something I'm considering, despite the exorbitant 450,000 won. We'll see how this weekend goes, and then I can decide how I like these jampacked adventures.

Anyway, now that I've pushed myself into actually booking a reservation, I feel like I can climb myself out of this winter rut. I can do it. I've been saying inshallah a lot lately, but I can do it.

Monday, November 23, 2009

Authors, Moral Responsibility, and Research...

So Nano is drawing to a close soon, and I'm sitting at 42k. This is a lot better than before, and I know that once you get to 40k, you sail through. It's about 82 pages now. I didn't realize how LONG that was. Man! My characters are fumbling around, and my plot is somewhat disjointed, with varying degrees of character development, but at least I'm plowing towards the end. I won't get there, but my goal is to get there by the end of the year. Hopefully that will keep my mind off of not having a break for Christmas or Thanksgiving.

Anyway, I started this thread on the Nano boards because I was somewhat disillusioned by someone I saw posting on the spiritual and religions forums. This person was asking every religion "What questions do people ask when they come to your place of worship"? Not a bad set of questions, I guess, but then I thought about this person and their novel. They were writing a novel of a spiritual journey, and didn't feel like researching it thoroughly. Do they know about these religions at all? If they have a character going through a religious transformation, shouldn't they be morally responsible for presenting these religions as they *really* would be? Shouldn't they maybe attempt to visit a mosque, mandir, or temple?

And shouldn't they know that people that practice Islam are MUSLIMS, not ISLAMS?

Maybe I'm taking that a little bit too seriously. I mean, I guess it is my area of expertise. But I really do believe that when you write a story, you are creating something. Creating irresponsibly is dangerous. If you don't seek deep to find the facts around what you are trying to say, you do a lot of things. You loose your credibility, even if your message is a good one. You risk offending your own reader base, and when you do this in a world where it is socially acceptable, you propagate the incorrect ideas. You turn your good will into something that just feeds a bad image.

How can you portray anyone if you don't know the first thing about them? Am I wrong to think that this is morally irresponsible? (Maybe I'm taking it too seriously. I mean, this is Nano, not college--the point is to write words, not get everything right.)

Anyway... just some thoughts. I'm really not looking forward to work today, and I slept in accidentally. It's almost 1 and I'm not dressed, nor have I cooked myself anything to eat. Sigh. But I did get a hug on Saturday. A hug and a few good conversations. It's amazing how when you are starved of such things, how one hug can float you through a whole day.

Sunday, November 22, 2009

It's been a minute since I last posed.

I've not been doing too many touristy things. Mostly I've just been riding my bike around, trying to keep my apartment clean, and watching as the weather slowly gets colder. (It's nice and warm these days though, back up to almost 55.)

Yesterday I went shopping and bought some new clothes... boots with fuzzy insides, a sweater that shocks everything it touches, and a cute little black shirt with a bow tie around the neck. I feel like a real teacher, haha, buying all these teachery clothes.

The past couple weeks have been a struggle. I don't want to lie about that. I also don't want to let it overshadow the things that I am liking, and the fact that I finally feel like I'm making some solid friends. Everyone tells me that the 3-4 month mark is the hardest, and that once you plow through it, things will lighten up. Even though I had a good sociable weekend, I am still frightened to go back to work. I feel exhausted even thinking about it.

This week made me want to throw in the towel. I am having issues with a few of my classes, but I am so reluctant to get angry with students. I always feel very ashamed with myself when I get angry. But I feel ashamed with myself if I do nothing, and then the students start to think that they can push me around whenever they want. I start to let a few difficult classes overshadow my whole day. And truthfully, now that I'm sitting down and writing about it, I don't have too many bad classes. It's just that they're not NEW anymore, so controlling them isn't like a new and interesting challenge. I just get tired. In one class in particular, I have a difficult student. I've tried my hardest to be good to him, and be patient, and calm, and blahdeeblah, because I know that he has a mental disorder. But now I can't ignore his bad behavior anymore. Disciplining this child makes me physically sick, but not disciplining him, letting him behave terribly, also makes me sick--because then I am letting the other students down. I'm siding with a difficult student at the expense of the other students, just because I *think* he is sick. Nobody even told me he is. That's terribly shameful in this country.

I know that when I come out the other side of this, I am going to have one serious backbone. But I am terrified of doing the work. I don't know if I can. I feel weak a lot. The comforting thing, though, is that at least I don't feel like my work is pointless. I am growing as a person out here, even if it's not the way I expected it to be. I don't know if I'll want to be a teacher ever again after this year, but I do know that my inner self will be better for it.

And I feel better now that I'm writing about it. Lately, it's been all Nanowrimo, and burying myself in episodes of Private Practice. But Saturday and Sunday were good sociable days. I discovered a small coffee shop, where I could get a cup for 1000 won (about 80c), and I had a friend over for chicken noodle soup (which I can now make on my own.) Then I had a good time partying, and danced my little heart out with a Korean friend. I met her through some of my coworkers and their group. She's a lot of fun and she can dance really well... and even though her English is pretty weak, she still has a great personality, and you don't need to talk to bond on the dance floor, haha.

On Sunday I met up with a guy who is also doing Nanowrimo. There are three of us in Daejeon, and this guy is a pretty interesting fellow. We had a good long chat about the different places in the world that we've been, homesickness.. the like. It helped me out. Then he showed me around one of the downtown areas (the one farther away from me) and I did some serious shopping after that. Now I have fuzzy warm boots and my feet won't be cold!

So I'm struggling through the fall... as I always do, but I get the feeling that things are going to pick up. I'm thinking about looking up one of these planned 'weekend trips' that some companies offer here. Might be a good way to see some of Korea and not have to do it alone. :D

Sunday, November 15, 2009

Things about Korea that I love love love

1. Riding my bike at 1:30am with the Transformer's soundtrack. (An excellent piece of music, I must say.) Seeing tiny little buildings heaped up on each other, and tiny little roads that climb up hills, and things that look, smell, and feel like countryside right in the middle of a city.

2. The Jimjilbang and the sauna.
The Jimjilbang is a Korean spa. Many are open 24 hours, and they have one co-ed sauna area where you wear uniforms, and then a gender separate bath. There are different tubs with jets and different sauna style rooms. I laid in one of the tubs last night, in a steam room. The room is full of water vapor, and it is really-really-really hot--probably like 120 or 140, and when you walk in you can barely breath. But then there is a pool of cool water. And, best yet, the walls are decorated with shining rocks, crystals and river stones in different colors, that make pictures of waves and trees. It's nice because you are alone in there, usually. Outside in the bathes, all the Korean women stare at me. For a couple reasons, I guess--one because I'm a foreigner, and two because I'm alone, since I usually go to the Jimjilbang with my male coworkers. (We chill in the saunas and then split up to go to the spa part, of course.) I haven't met any girls that seem to like it yet.

3. The badass female bartender at Sponge
The most famous bar in Daejeon, where all the foreigners go, is called "Western Bar Sponge." It's a lot of fun most of the time, but it's the place where you are guaranteed to see just about everybody teaching/studying on this side of the city. And there is this bar tender, who looks like she could break me in half, with this epic mop of curly hair, an amazing smile, and hugs for everybody. Her english is minimal, so I can't really tell her that I think she is the coolest person ever. But she did give me a hug last night.

4. Kimbap, Donkasu, and--well--most Korean food.
I say this all the time, but man do I love the food here. It's just all so good. Spectacularly good!

5. Feeling awesome when I say something in Korean, and somebody understands.
I am pretty proud of myself for being able to chug out a few sentences and read at 2 months. I am not really confident, and I wish that I knew more, but I do feel pretty awesome when the light goes on in my head, and I actually communicate with someone--no matter how halting and choppy it is.

6. Laughing hysterically with my good classes.
Some classes are just adorable. Some classes just rock, and they make me laugh so much that I just break down with them. When I have enough energy, these are the best classes, and I just love it.

Thursday, November 12, 2009

Hahaha funny Fat-Maggie story and other amusing Korean language mixups

I have this one kid in one of my older glasses who is spherical. I think I've talked about him before. But it's not that he's spherical--it's that he ROCKS it. Like he is fat and proud. And I love it. He's such a jolly kid. He's got a lot of spunk. He's hell to try and control in class, but whatever. At least he's a happy kid. This is also the kid that asks me EVERY DAY if I like Lamborghinis. Every day. "Teacher do you know Lamborghini?" >.< "Yes, I like Lamborghinis. I still like Lamborghinis. I like them just as much as the last class when you asked me 7 times."

Anyway, on Tuesday this kid asked me: "Teacher are you wedding?" I wanted to reply "What, like having a wedding right now?" but I didn't. He meant "Are you married?" Then I said. "No." And he said, "So you don't have a baby?" (I get asked about being pregnant a lot, I guess maybe because Koreans don't have stomachs, haha.) Anyway, so I replied "Nope, I'm just fat." And he gave me this HUGE grin and just started laughing uncontrollably. In a nice way. Like "YEEEAH welcome to the club! We rule!" Haha, when that class is good they make me happy. I see them outside of class, too, which makes me feel like I have a life.

Also, the other day I was teaching "The Christmas Carol" to a class of middle schoolers, and I was trying to get them to tell the story again.

So I said "So... Scrooge (they all called him Scroogie) went back to the past, and what was he doing?"
"He was at a party."
"And what was he doing at the party?"
"He was doing.... pretty girl dancing with!"
It took all my power not to collapse into laughter. Ahhhh funny mixups.

Monday, November 9, 2009

It's been too long since I posted anything!

I've been having a low key week. I'm trying to focus on socializing, but it's tuckered me out just a little bit. Work has been a big effort these past few days, and the weather is getting grimey. I'm behind on my word count, but not by too much. It's sitting now at about 15,000.

Today we have a big meeting with Center 1 and Center 2, and we are discussing the "Presentation" portion of class for our older levels. The first meeting we had, I was all full of ideas--like a brainstorming meeting in College. I soon realized that this wasn't exactly how things were supposed to work. I left the meeting confused and set back. We have to make an outline of one story, but so far my work hasn't really been good enough--but people don't want me to loose face, so instead of telling me what I did wrong, they just say "I'll do it for you." Not exactly the best way to learn, but whatever.

The boss is proposing this change to our presentation system to the big corp for my school. To me, that is a good example of Korean business culture. Nobody does anything without the consent of their superiors. Foreign teachers complain a lot about having to always answer to the Korean teachers. The Korean teachers always have to answer to the boss. The bosses always have to answer to corp. It goes on and on. Everything is so regimented, polite, unchanging. Your quality is measured by how well you fit the mold you were placed in. This is very Confucian, very Taoist--"The Way is like Water, it fits to any shape, and is content with the lowest of places."

Sigh. I wish I was as enlightened as the Tao these days.


Speaking of the Tao... interesting tidbit that I researched on Wikipedia. The Korean symbol, one that is seen on nearly ALL Buddhist temples (besides the swastika) is a blue, red, and yellow swirl that looks like this. I was intrigued about this symbol, because it's uniquely Korean. Turns out that it is the Korean Yin and Yang--except it is a trinity instead of a duality. The Chinese yin and yang symbol, with the light and dark swirls, represents heaven and earth, day and night, male and female, and a whole slew of other dual balances. Dark is on the bottom, but is rising, and light is on the top, but is falling. It is in constant motion, and there are dots within the opposite side to say that nothing is entirely pure. This is a symbol of Chinese philosophy, usually associated with Taoism, but I don't know if it was actually made before or after the supposed writings of Lao Tzu (founder of Taoism.)


Anyway, the Koreans adopted this symbol, but changed the colors. They use red and blue. You can see it on the South Korean flag. (I don't know what the black bars mean, but I should find out, shouldn't I?)  This symbol is called the Taegeuk, or 대극. Buddhism arrived in Korea over several hundred years, spreading into different kingdoms at different rates. Korean Buddhism adopted this symbol, but added the third lobe--the yellow one--which represents humanity. So instead of just having heaven and earth, there is heaven, earth, and humanity placed in perpetual balance. It is called the Sam-Taegeuk, which literally means "Three-Taegeuk".

Anyway, there's a couple interesting tidbits about the things that I'm learning here. My Korean is still atrocious, and I'm quite lazy and don't feel like studying. I feel like I should step on it, you know. Get working because I only have a year--but then I realize that that's still ten months, and I get lazy again.

I bought this "Survival Korean" book. It has the phrases in English, romanized Korean, and in 한글. I've been practicing writing and reading what I can, but it's so daunting. Sometimes I play games with my kids, having them say a word and me trying to spell it on the board. Usually I'm good--but there are a lot of sounds that are so similar to my untrained ears. Like "ah" "aw" and "oh". I can distinguish "ah" and "oh", but when you throw the third one in there I'm lost--"aw" could be a, o, or u in the English language. Then there's "u" and "eu", like an "oo" sound and a harsher "ew" sound. Impossible, I tell you. But thank god I can read, I'll tell you that. Anyone who is considering coming to Korea to live should learn to read. It helps SO much. I pick up words and things, and I can properly understand how to pronounce things, because if I can spell it, I can say it with the correct inflection. I don't know what I would do if I couldn't read.

Anyway, I also got postits and plastered Korean words all over my house. It's helping I know that the word for toothbrush is chit-sol. And the word for key is yeolshwi.

But enough of this. Back to the word count!

Sunday, November 1, 2009

Art and Writing...

Word Count: 2,062

On track with my word count so far, but getting up this morning wasn't any fun. I set my alarm for 9, but I hit snooze until 10:00, but then they are laying something in the in-construction house next door. It was a snooze time filled with strange crashes and confusion. I finally got ear plugs, but I wasn't coherent enough to use them. Then I was up long enough to make my coffee, but wimped out and slept for another half an hour--which made my coffee cold. How sad.

Yesterday I discovered a art/craft store in Unhaengdong. This was quite exciting, and I got two new markers... light blue, the Korean version of Prismacolor, I guess. 2,000 won (2 dollars) a piece, but I'm excited anyway, because they are going to work much better than my light blue highlighter. I've been meaning to do that for a long time. I also found little miniature wood hobby sets... haha, which might become my Korean obsession for the year--you know, minus turning my apartment into an indoor jungle.

Speaking of my jungle, I'm pretty sad because my beautiful pink flowers aren't doing so well. I have no idea what to do! I thought at first that I wasn't watering them enough, but now I think that I am watering them too much... they are getting sad and decrepit. But maybe they are getting cold? I don't know! It's terrible! I don't know the first thing about gardening, other than you need to put water in it. And it isn't as if I can ask the shop owner.

I went tooling around on my bike yesterday around 11. I love riding around at night. It's been one of my favorite experiences here so far. I put on my headphones, and I just ride through the streets. It feels so peaceful. Everything is dark. No one is around. For some reason here, it gets very humid at night, even though it is cold. The air is thick, and light reflects from it, so there are halos of yellow and white around everything.

Where I live is quite developed, as I'm sure you've seen by the photos, but it's a little cell of development. There is a small river/stream that runs along one edge, and then the other side is bordered by the small set of hills that I walk on. There is a huge, six lane road, but on one side of it is huge apartments, fifteen stories high, and on the other side it is rice paddies, farm fields, and the little river. It is such an abrupt change, and at night it is quite beautiful. Almost space age.

Yesterday I made it all the way to the Chungnam University area, which is a fun college town. The buildings are older, compressed, with wires sticking every which way. The houses are made from brick and look quite odd--Asian, but not Japanese or Chinese, of course. Distinct. The corners are dulled and everything is curvy, and the roofs almost look Ghanaian, flat with railings and places to dry clothes. I loved the neighborhood--especially since at 12:00 midnight there were still tons of people wandering around. In fact, I drove past a tiny cafe, and who did I see? Why, my coworker! How odd! I stopped in to say hi, but then I meandered off home. Small world, this. But I like it. It's good to get to know people.

I had a good weekend, but it was mostly Halloween partying and the like. Didn't see or do anything spectacular, but I'm excited because I'm heading into Seoul this weekend! And it's Nano, which means that I'm going to get my writing ON! Yay!

Saturday, October 31, 2009

As I wait for Greys Anatomy to Load....

Horray for the weekend!

H1N1 panic is back in style. This time, though, it seems like people have a real reason for it. At least one of my students flat out told me "Oh, I was gone last week because I had swine flu." Yesterday we were forced to wear masks during passing time in class. It was kind of like an impromptu Halloween costume. I'm so nervous that my kids are going to get me sick. Kids always get you sick. On Thursday, my 3:30 class had one kid in it--out of nine or ten.

Honestly if they are going to close the schools, they should do it now. It won't be good because we won't get paid for the time that we aren't working, but I would welcome the vacation--and then I wouldn't feel so guilty if I ended up getting sick too.

Right now I'm feeling nervous about a lot of logistical things that I need to figure out. My alien card and passport are still being handled by the immigration office. That also means that I don't have health insurance yet, but it is officially out of my (and my bosses') hands. I have seen, here, though, that even if you don't have insurance, health care is not as exorbitantly expensive as it is in the states. If I did get sick, it wouldn't put me out too far to get treated, and I'm sure I could work something out post-treatment for pay back.

I had a pretty bad day on Friday. I just don't know what happened. I wasn't feeling the vibe, and I was just.. out of it. Achey, tired, and be-masked. No energy to get the kids going. (Actually, they didn't make us wear the mask while we were teaching. Just when we were walking around in the hallways.)

The kids from the other hagwons were also mysteriously absent in the hallway on Friday. The only other kids I saw were the ones from the Taekwondo hagwon. Actually, funny story about the Taekwondo Hagwon... one of the teachers is about my age, and bows to me EVERY time he sees me. It always makes me feel good, when I'm not having a good day. Like, "my kids might think I'm an idiot and hate my guts, and have no respect for me, but at least this random taekwondo master respects me and what I do." I mean, he must respect what I do, because he doesn't know anything about me other than what I do, and he really appears to bow out of genuine respect. It's weird, but quite comforting.

Maybe this is why, in the states, we have MEA weekend. The teachers have to plan and everything, but it's a good excuse to kick the kids out of the school during the sickest months of the year--get them to play, recover, and not get the teachers sick. Then again, when teachers get sick in the USA, they have substitutes.

Thursday, October 29, 2009

Nanowrimo is two days away!!

As some of my favorite students would say... "Oh--my--COD!!"

(In Korean language, the 'g' sound only comes in the center of a word, so forming words that BEGIN with 'g' is hard for them. They will often make the k sound instead, which makes it sound like they are calling upon the divine cod.)

So naturally this past week I have been working hard to get my chapter plans in order so that I can begin withe fury of a thousand suns on November 1!

For those of you who don't know what Nanowrimo is, it is short for National Novel Writing Month. In 2003, when I was a junior in high school, I heard from a friend that these crazy people had decided to challenge themselves to write a novel in a month. 50,000 words of novel in one month. Naturally I thought that was a genius idea, and I completed my 50,000 words--about halfway into a brilliant novel. After the end of the month, I barely looked at it again.

The world and the plot stayed in my head, though. Plus Nanowrimo is one amazing way to meet and chat with other writers. The craziness kind of infects everyone to be more supportive. I'm super excited to meet some of the novelists in Korea, too.

Also, I'm attempting to find a way to upload a short video post to share with friends and family. It was suggested to me because some family wants to hear what's up, but can't get on the internet to read the blog. It sounded kind of fun anyway, but sadly I discovered (after making the video) that YouTube has blocked video uploads from South Korea. Don't ask me why, I don't know. I am assuming that it is a copyright concern that the SK government enacted.

Anyway... I'm off to plan sommore stuff!!

Tuesday, October 20, 2009

You know, I write a journal more than a blog...

I guess that's okay, most of the time. But I am enjoying reading some of the other things that I run across--more bloggy things, and I wonder--how can I do that?

My mom sent me this article on the Matador, called: "The Expat Conundrum: The Longer You Stay, The More You Complain". It is kind of an interesting article. They are taking about Mexico, but I do feel like the people who have been here the longest complain a lot. I actually ran into a guy down by the river who had lived here for several years. He definitely had the "they" attitude that the author talks about. Harsh. Serious. Acted like he got stuck here. After I said I was new, his first idea was to give me the name and number of someone to call if I "got into any trouble."

Now the other article that I was reading on this website was this: "6 Ways To Not Be A Holier-Than-Thou Traveler." I am guilty of some of these things--especially here in Korea. I'm trying my hardest not to let Ghana spill over into my experience here, especially now that I am trying to make new friends... but I can't help it. I mean, everything there seemed so much more hard core. More difficult. So when this gentleman told me that if I "got into any trouble", I should call this guy... I thought: "What kind of trouble can I possibly get into that is worse than the trouble I could get into in Ghana?" So I am majorly guilty of the Holier than Thou attitude. Because your wallet can get stolen in any country. Your passport can get stolen in any country. You can be in a terrible car accident in any country--but I drop "Africa" like it is this magical place that makes me more hard core than the others here. And I know that if my African friends heard me say those things, they would be annoyed. But sometimes, that "this is easy because I've done something much harder" attitude gets me through the difficult days here. Because, really, it is hard here, too, and I need something to remind me that I can do it.

Anyway I am really enjoying these articles on Matador, and browsing through them. It feels good to be a traveler again, no matter where I am--and that brings me to my excellent weekend, which I promised I would report on.

Let me sum it up for you.
Saturday:



Sunday:


On Saturday, as I mentioned before, Stephanie and I visited Gyeongbokgung. This enormous palace was constructed for the Joseon dynasty, which ruled Korea from 1392 to August 1910. The picture above is from the retreat quarters of King Gojong. Inside there are quarters for the King and Queen, as well as a study--though it was most certainly blocked off from tourists. The area was restored in 2007, after having been dismantled in 1909, during Japanese occupation. An art museum was put on the location in 1939.

The palace had two main areas--the public and the private. The public areas were enormous, impressive, places where the king could strut, as it were. The roofs were two tiered, everything was tall and extravagant, and the painting was out of this world. Humans just looked insignificant next to and inside these enormous buildings.




 After going to this palace, Stephanie and I set out for a market, that turned out to be a shopping mall and not a market. But the journey to the market was one full of tiny street vendors. In Korea street vendors sell things out of these little retractable trailors. When they are finished selling, they close down the doors and drag the metal box away--like a dragable garage. Then they bring it home or just leave it in some alley somewhere. I saw one man packing up and I thought this was just brilliant, and quite hilarious to boot. Of course, there was another man along the road who was selling notebooks and paper supplies out of the back of a pick up. Stephanie stopped to grab a notebook, and I just stared in true-love fascination.

I picked up a bunch of little trinkets, which I adore, even though they may be kitchy and touristy. I like touristy stuff--no prob for me. Now I have some little glass kimchi peppers on my phone, haha.

After we discovered that the market was actually less interesting than the street-to-the-market, we departed for Itaewon, which is the foreigner section of Seoul. It used to be sleezy, because it was mostly military men, and there are a lot of American GIs still there, I guess, but now it is full of just about anyone. There is a big mosque on a hill, and there are Muslims everywhere. I was simply overjoyed about that one. There were lots of Africans, too, and Stephanie and I went to a restaurant owned by Ghanaians!! Not only Ghanaians, but people from the Ashanti region, which means that they spoke Twi! We made some nice new friends... and actually this one guy insists on calling me two or three times every day, which is something that I hated when I was in Africa, but now it's kind of nice. I get to talk to someone before work, and it isn't about work, and it isn't complicated and confusing. Just talk. It also helps that I don't live in Seoul, though, lol, because he doesn't constantly ask me to visit him. 

Anyway, our new African friends were definitely NOT Muslim because they decided that it would be an excellent idea to get us to try their 'healing' wood liquor that had been home made in Korea. (Of course, it's home made in Ghana, too, but seeing it in Korea is weird and confusing. Also because it definitely looked like it was in a juice jug.) That was an enlightening experience, lol... especially because they totally refused to let US refuse. I had a good laugh, but had Stephanie not been there I probably would have been awkward and upset about it. I do believe, though, that it was the same material that I had been drinking in the stilt village on my 21st birthday.


Anyway, on Sunday Stephanie and I visited a huge Buddhist temple called Bong Eungsa, or 보은사. This is a full time used temple, with monks and nuns and worshipers coming in and out. I loved the feeling of it. A quiet, sacred sense settles over you, and you feel like a tourist, but not like a worthless tourist. You feel like you've come to see something important. There is also an awkwardness about it, because there are people praying and worshiping around you. That is hard, but the tension makes you realize things. Tension always leads to realization, I think, anyway, and I enjoy it.


The painting on this temple was out of this world. I've seen good painting, especially at the palace that we visited on Saturday, but this temple had murals on the walls. Scenes from the Buddha's life, scenes from the lives of Bodhisattvas and probably kings as well. There was no one to explain it, so as the monk chanted in the main building, I simply stared at it, and attempted to take a few measly pictures. They don't do it justice.


The monk was chanting when we arrived, and the prayer hall in the front of the building was full to the brim of women. It was all women, not a single man. I don't know why. The chanting was as beautiful as the buildings. As the monk left, I came eye to eye with him, bowed my head in some kind of greeting, but I don't know if it was rude or just 'typical' for a foreigner to do something awkward like that. But I wanted to let him know that I appreciated his voice, and his temple, and his religion, and his purpose... so I looked him in the eye and greeted him. I hope he saw it that way, but I doubt it. Ah well.


The temple had several main halls in the front of the complex, but it was in front of a rising mountain, so smaller Bodhisattva complexes rose up into the forest above. The higher we climbed, the more of metropolitan Seoul spilled out from behind the temple roofs. The ancient, painstakingly maintained buildings with delicate painted halls stood in front of glass sky scrapers--the Seoul World Trade Center--the Co-Ex twin-tower shopping mall--roads of busy, honking traffic. It was ironic and rather superb that this temple, a relic of "old" Korea, but a reminder to "new" Korea, stood in the middle of this development and urban bustle.  

After the temple we went to a market, which is where the first picture is from. It was mostly closed, but I enjoyed it anyway, and since there was a lack of people, I didn't feel too pushed and shoved with my big backpack on my shoulders. (Then quite full of trinkets, clothing, and rinkydinks that I bought.)



It's time for me to get on my bike and tool down to work, so I'll leave you with this image, and a link to the others on Facebook. 


Sunday, October 18, 2009

Holy Canoli, Batman! Seoul!

So this weekend I made my first trip up to Seoul from Daejeon to visit Stephanie! We had an excellent time. We ate at an Indian-Nepalese restaurant, an African (Ghanaian!!) restaurant, AND a Mexican Restaurant! We went to a beautiful palace AND a beautiful temple, and we even heard some amazing chanting. I bought shoes, shirts, and kitchy trinkets that I l-l-love! We even went to a book store!

I arrived around two on Saturday, and Stephanie and I went to Gyeongbokgung, or 경복궁, which was founded in 1395 by the Joseon dynasty. Since then it has been destroyed twice by the Japanese, once in the 1592 invasion, and again in the more well known invasion precluding WWI. One of the important figures in Korean occupation was Empress Myeongseong, who fought the Japanese until she was assassinated in 1895. I'm excited to find out more about her, but so far I don't really know much. All of these buildings were beautifully restored in the mid 1990s and early 2000s, and they're still working on other parts of the enormous complex. It is intriguing and breathtaking that this place is so old but so young, and also such an important symbol. There were many tourists there, but they were from everywhere--and more than 50% were Korean tourists. I heard some Japanese, and actually spoke it a little bit with an older woman. And by speaking I mean, I repeated what she said because I understood it, and she was dumbfounded and asked me if I spoke Japanese, and then I said "a little" and went on my way. But you know. Whatever you can get. Actually that day I spoke four different languages... because I spoke to the Japanese Lady, spoke Korean to folks, and English with Stephanie, and tiny Twi with the owners of the Ghanaian restaurant. Granted... I only used a few words in all but English, but, yeah I'd say that's pretty cool. I'll give myself permission to be proud of myself for that. :P

Anyway, the grandeur and impressiveness of this palace are just beyond beautiful. Everything is enormous, complicated, intricate, and well thought out. There are two impressive mountains standing behind the palace grounds, and they are distinctly Asian mountains. The rock formations are just not anything you would see in the US, and the way they stand is different from American mountains and African mountains. It might be easy to assume that rock is rock everywhere place to place, but no.

There are pictures from the weekend posted on facebook. I won't regale you with the entire story now because that post would just be too long, but check out my gallivanting, and hopefully you'll have a long enough attention span when I attempt to write about it!

Thursday, October 15, 2009

A new bike and a new stovetop... all in 24 hours!

Oh my! Well, on Wednesday I cracked and decided that I was just going to buy a shiny new bike. I've never had a shiny new bike before--I mean, not one that I bought for myself. My little red baby is back at home, probably rusting away... ;.; but it was a gift/hand me down--and on top of that, it was the prize of the party when it came to being retro. This cute little bike had no gears and back peddle breaks. But now I have a shiny silver jet... it's got a basket and a shelf above the back tire. And it even has five gears! Wow! haha--oh and a BELL. :D

Even better, though, it folds in half, so that when I bring it into my already teeny apartment, it won't take up oodles of space--only half an oodle. Bikes in Korea tho have these tiny little wheels and peddles that I can't quite get used to... so everything turns fast and I'm not used to the subtlety of the movement, haha. Also having a bike with gears means that it is heavy on one side... so riding without hands is a lot harder. Sigh--especially since I can't break with my feet so I have to touch the handlebars. Sad. I feel a lot less cool. On top of that, I'm still used to back peddle breaks... which means that when I'm about to hit someone, I don't reach for the break right away... I back peddle, nothing happens, and then I panic. Haha. We'll see how long it is before I hit something. Let's just hope it's not someone, because I still can't say "I'm sorry" in Korean.

On Wednesday I went out to eat with my coworker and we had some seriously delicious food at a Chinese restaurant. There were... YAM CHIPS in my sweet and sour chicken! YAM CHIPS, guys!! I haven't had a real yam chip since... since Nas made them on the day I left Africa! Holy Buckets of Steaming Fries! It was so exciting.

We also met some fellows from the International Astronautical Convention. Do you know what that means? Space men! I thought it was over, but I was wrong! It's finishing today, so hopefully they will all be out at the bars tonight and I can chat with them, haha. I mean, cuz really, who doesn't want to hang out with an astronaut?!

Saturday, October 10, 2009

Also, a random blast from the part of me that wants to be in Africa



Check this OUT! This white man can speak Twi like CRAZY!  I am so jealous. It inspires me to do all kinds of things... like attempt to practice Korean more. Someday I just hope that someone will have the same reaction I am having when they hear me speak some language.

Actually I went into the kimbab shop that I frequent the other day, and I was quite proud of myself because I ordered my favorite kimbab relatively devoid of hooks--I won't say accent free, but I thought it was pretty good, haha. And, on top of that, I was able to read the menu and check the price, so I could give her the correct change.

Reading is a big deal here, and I really do love that I can do it. It's not hard to learn, and it makes life so much easier--and people are proud of you from the get go, haha. It seems weird to me that so few people learn it. I'll gather some links for anyone that is interested in learning. I did it all online, made tiny little flash cards, and just ran through them when I was waiting for stuff.

Norebang is a BAD idea when loosing one's voice.

Hahaha. Last night we went to Norebang at about 5 in the morning. Norebang is Korean Karaoke, which literally, I think, means "singing room". You get your own room, with microphones, a tv to show you the lyrics, and a lot of awkward people screaming their hearts out. Even if they don't have a voice to scream with--holy buckets. And now I don't have a voice at ALL, haha. But I guess it was worth it. :D

Thursday, October 8, 2009

Friday is my favorite day!

My kids are good, the weekend is near, and life is just simpler. Energy is abundant, because I don't have to save it for anything else.

The online tv that I have been watching has too many love stories in it. I like the action and the adventure, but the love stories make me lonely. I mean, that makes sense of course. I should be lonely. I don't know anyone here very well. I was thinking yesterday about how badly I just wanted to talk to someone. It's funny because I didn't really notice how deeply I missed really hard core conversation until Stephanie came down, and we got to do some of that. Now I crave it.

But that's natural, I think. I mean, you can't move somewhere and expect to know everyone lickity split. Nor can you expect to having the kind of soul-wrenching discussions that seem to fuel us so well. It's natural. There's no reason to be concerned--but it does make me quite impatient. (As if I wasn't enough already.) And just because it's normal doesn't mean it doesn't hurt.

Oddly enough, all I really need to be okay with it is to write it down. Share it a little. Then I feel better. I get it off my chest. I don't feel so isolated, because at least I know that it's normal.

Either way, I am REALLY looking forward to National Novel Writing Month this year. I skipped the last two years, but now with my new found time, I am 100% ready to dive back in, crank out some so-so work, and then really force myself back into the writing world. The best part is that there is a good sized Nano community here in Korea, with about 100 participants in Seoul and another 10 or so in Busan. Since I'm smack dab in the middle of those two cities, I can join people for writing parties in both cities! I think that will be a great way to form some good, deep relationships. People always bond better over the absurd things that they do. I mean, moving to Korea is a pretty absurd thing to do--but everyone I've met so far has been here for a while. Now moving to Korea and then attempting to write a novel in 1 month, that is 2x absurd, and only a very odd breed of people would even attempt it. So I'm pretty excited. :D

Anyway, my new goals for October are to get out a little bit more. Setting goals for the month is important, and this October I want to travel a little bit more. September was good--now I've been here for a month, and it's time to start breaking out of the ordinary. There's stuff to see in this country! And I intend to see it!

Saturday, October 3, 2009

King Kevin Keeps a 2,000 Year Old Fortress in his Kitchen

Or rather, King Muryeongwang kept his capital in Gongju, in about 500AD.

This weekend is Chuseok weekend. I have two days off and it's been spectacular so far. Stephanie came down from Yongin to visit, and we've been doing plenty of things. On Friday we discovered that there is an enormous market across the street from my subway station... it sells mostly food, so I don't know how often I will actually shop there, but it reminds me of markets at home, especially the Somali and Hmong markets. It is a huge covered building, with little market huts inside. When we wandered about, on the evening before Chuseok, there certainly wasn't much happening, but we did see a lot of fruit and vegetables. I really feel at a loss without ANY Korean. I mean, when someone is shouting at me, I want to know if they are saying "My wares are the best!" or "You just stepped on something!" or "You dropped something!" haha. Though I suppose I should give body language SOME credit, after all.

There are a few simple pagodas just sitting around in my neighborhood. You take your shoes off and you can just sit there. I can't imagine how fantastic that would be for a little kid with a good imagination. That's like an invitation to a playhouse right there. They are painted pagodas, too. Korean pagoda painting is very distinct. It's really interesting, and very beautiful. I enjoy it a lot.

On Saturday, we embarked for a day trip. It was my first time out of Daejeon! I was super excited. We went to the nearby city of Gongju, which is much smaller than Daejeon, and has a lot of great charm. On one side of the river, everything seemed fairly new. It looked just like Daejeon, with tall, uniform apartment buildings, hotels here and there complete with neon, and wide roads with heavy traffic. However, on the other side of the river there was a huge fortress--and it is not like you would imagine a European fortress. This was a fortress not because of tall walls, but because of the landscape. It was surrounded by a steep hill that ancient people had fortified with stairs and a small wall. Yellow flags stood along it, and in the wind they all moved together. It was something positively Asian--like I stepped out of a movie or something.



We explored the fortress--or, rather, we explored some of the fortress before we realized that we couldn't climb a single step more. The main enterance was quite impressive, but it was not the original building. This site has been here for 2,000 years, but it has been built and built again by the various kings who held their capitals here. The first site, I'm sure, has been leveled. But it's the place that remembers, I think. Anyway, the main gate was constructed as a replica sometime after 1933, when the site was basically leveled to create a road. No road stands there now, so I don't know what happened.

It is an extremely steep incline. Everything in this town had an extremely steep incline, haha, but it probably comes in handy. Not only is it ritually symbolic to make people climb to meet you--and I mean excessively climb to meet you--but it is also militarily important. It's pretty hard to fight like this.
This is the pagoda on top of the main enterance gate. Below this there is a gate wide enough for three or four people, and the height is not too high. The doors are heavy and decorated, and the ceiling above it is painted just like the pagoda here is painted. The Japanese and Chinese, I believe, carve their pagodas. The Koreans paint them, usually in these magnificent green and blue and yellow patterns. These are colors that are unique to Korean architecture. The view from the top of this was great. We could see the city and village intermixing behind another ancient gate that sat at the bottom of the hill.
The path away from the pagoda runs along the fortification. Some of it is repaired with cement. Other parts are simply stone. I don't know how old it is. All I know is that the men who must have guarded this location had REALLY powerful legs--because they climbed this constantly. This was only the beginning... one part of the complex. The walls went up and down like a rollercoaster.

The other side of the same hill... this is something we just walked down. On our way back we cut through the forest on the interior of the fort... not much easier, but at least it wasn't steps!

In a nook between the high hills, there was a river-watching pagoda, a well, and a small temple. The temple was still lived in, and had been lived in for thousands of years. Thousands of years. It astounds me. Monks going about their daily business, seeking enlightenment, for thousands of years. I wonder if enlightenment has changed in thousands of years. People evolve over that time--mentally, physically, do we also evolve spiritually?

These buildings all seemed rectangular. Their proportions were simple but all similar. The painting on the ceilings changed, however, and varied in intensity and complexity. I don't know when the painting was done, since it looked bright and fresh, and some things suggested that the buildings had all been rebuilt after destruction.

After our third or fourth hill, however, Stephanie and I couldn't handle trying another one--plus we hadn't really eaten, and that's never a good thing. So we slowly made our way out of the park. Encountered a taxi curving along the cobble-stone paved roads in the center of the park. Surprised me. 2,000 year old site and now it has taxi drivers quibbling along the roads.

Korean food is probably the most generous food I've eaten so far. And by that, I mean that when you order "Kalbi", which is basically just "meat", you do not receive JUST meat. Nothing just JUST anything. There are three, four, five, six side dishes for every meal possible. Each restaurant has different ones--except for Kimchi--which is everyone's side dish. Everything is so good, and it's like an appetizer plate every time you go out. You never know what you're going to get, and you never know you're going to like it. I like just about everything so far--except for cold soup, haha. Stephanie and I went to a restaurant on Friday that gave us cold noodles, which was weird. But oh well--I mean what do you expect when you walk into a restaurant, can't speak the language to order, and then just nod at the first thing someone suggests? I mean, that is a food adventure right there.

Anyway, in Gongju we ate a fantastic meal, and spent the next few hours exploring the old part of town. Gongju is small enough that the high rises have not overpowered everything yet. Instead they sit in the middle of a conglomeration of other things, and instead of looking dead, they look alive.
Of course, I do think everything looks cooler on a mountain. These buildings are stuffed together around a church. Behind us the buildings are short and stocky, with small windows. I loved the buildings here, in their "I don't care" way. They're all made out of concrete, stuffed together with little windows and short roofs. Since they are all on an incline, they climb each other. You can't figure out where one house ends and another begins--unless the roof colors are different. Some roofs are bright blue--others bright orange. Can't figure that one out. The older ones have the slate tile style. The streets up the hills are tiny and wind around the homes--mostly because they homes were there before the roads were.

At the bottom of the hill, there was a small creek or stream. The main market complex sat next to it. It was enormous, but completely empty. I was sad about that--but who wants to work in the market on Chuseok? Nobody. An old woman motioned to us to sit down with her, but we blatantly ignored it... I felt so bad, but really, what could we have said to her? Nothing. We can't converse. It makes me so sad.

As we wandered along the walking trail on the creek, we came to the market sector. It seemed like a poor part of town--or at least the oldest part of town. The houses were little boxes, and they hung out over the dug out part of the creek. Little pipes came down from their bathrooms--the part of the house that hung over. Trees grew up in weird, crooked places between them. They had tiny windows, and I could hear people inside yelling and talking. Even though the windows were smaller than probably the height of my hand, they were covered with bright little curtains. These houses seemed to perch over this creek accidentally, placing a few poles and pipes there as if they could pick up and move when they wanted to. I loved it.
Overall the trip was great--and we were even home by sunset. The drive through the mountains was magnificent with the setting sun.


Wednesday, September 30, 2009

Perhaps I gave you the impression that I dislike ALL my kids.

This isn't true. Yesterday I was just venting about the day ahead of me--Wednesdays beat me down, and this one definitely did. But Tuesdays and Thursdays--I like those kids a lot. I have one difficult class, but I know how to maintain it. It's my turf, I understand certain things.

Anyway, today I have a bunch of great kids. My favorite class is one where everybody gets really excited about role playing. They have so much fun getting up in front of class and acting out the story, which makes me really happy, because some of the other classes just get bored with it. There is one kid in this class who insists on saying "YES SIR CAPTAIN" every time I tell him to do anything. And when they need to, they work quietly, which is a blessing.

My two older classes on Tuesday and Thursday are fun too. Sometimes I can't control the last class, but it's because they fight all the time. And the one kid is bigger than me. The little kid provokes him, and then the big kid attacks him. So flat out, next time I'm just going to tell him that I'm not stopping the fight if the little kid says mean stuff. ^^; That's a terrible teacher move, but what am I supposed to do? My coworker was telling me, actually, that their little brothers are in our school too, and they are also friends, haha. Anyway I get the feeling that these two are the best of friends, and will be that way their whole lives. And that's something I like to see. That class is a lot of fun, when I can actually control them. 

Anyway, I DO like some of my kids. I just dread Wednesdays. You got my residual fear and frustration yesterday. But there is another thing too.. I am realizing that I am the TEACHER. Which is really new to me. I like to hang out with kids--especially the older ones. I feel bad for making them do work that they find boring and irrelevant. Because I know how *I* would behave--I would ignore that teacher and roll my eyes and complete the work just to say "Look I am smarter than your stupid book." And I have students that do that. But I haven't figured out how to fix that yet. So really what it is, is that these bored students make me feel like a bad teacher. Because really, I don't CARE if they do their work or not, so long as they understand me when I talk to them. But they aren't paying tons of money to come here to hang out. Their parents want to see results, and that means paper book work. I want to see understanding, and that definitely does not come from the books. Anyway, I have a whole 11 more months to figure out how this works. And the perks of the situation are that I have a great boss, and I got PAID today, which is fan-freakin-tastic, because I haven't been paid anything since June 30.

Speaking of getting paid! Yesterday I had a bank-account-creating adventure! .. Well I guess it wasn't really an adventure. But I learned the word for bank (은행). Being able to read is probably one of the best things you can do for yourself before you come over here. If you can read, it's so much easier to teach yourself simple words. If you go to a place, you can remember what you get. If you can't understand how to pronounce something, you can write it. If you need to tell a taxi driver where to go, you can write it, instead of trying to get him to struggle through your accent.

OH! And speaking of Taxi drivers!! I had a LADY taxi driver yesterday! A Lady! I've never had a lady taxi driver! I just imagined that she was the queen of badass back at the taxi lair. She was just an older lady--not a grandmother yet, but her kids were grown up, probably my mom's age. She wore driving gloves and I bet she could sock some people pretty bad. I thought it was so cool. :D

And today is the last day of work before a FOUR DAY WEEKEND. Yes, PLEASE, folks. And even better... Stephanie is coming!! Woo!! I also met another religious studies major last night, which was great! He said he went to a temple stay that was actually an "international" temple, which means that there were American folks there, and so their English was impeccable--and they could explain the meaning of things. I am so excited to do that. .. Now I feel bad because I can't remember the guy's name. But I remember his face. It was nice, though. I met a lot of new folks last night. We went out to the other side of the city, where my coworker's sister lives. I recognized a few things from when I went to my Ghanaian friend's apartment (I think, but it was dark), so I think it was in that general direction. Older part of the city. More oomph on the streets. There are a lot of fun and interesting people over there, and I saw a lot of new faces. Including this guy from Brainerd! What? :D Another Minnesota face. People said that there were a lot of folks from Minneapolis here; haha, I said "You know, it is a bigger city than people give it credit for."

Had my first drink of Soju, but it was a little sip. Pretty.. yeah gross. But then again, from what people told me about Palm Wine, it can't be grosser than that. :D Cuz it's certainly not like drinking bacon.